S.E.X. Lets talk about it yeah?

Sexual intercourse ( sorry mum, I know you read this).



SUCH an interesting topic. Prolly one of my faves to talk about. I just find it interesting. Dont get me wrong, there is certian people that I dont wanna hear anything from about this topic. Like not at all, please stop, fingers in ears situation.

Im at work. Sooooo hahaha this bitch is on minimize (mini me size).



Like what defines a slut? Is it a number vs. the age of that person? Is the amount of people at one time that someone is "seeing" ? Like "Seeing" what? yes, you are def seeing, why wouldnt they call it "feeling" . Like im just "feeling" this guy right, hes like ....... that would make more sense right?



In my experience with sluts ( hahaha, A PLENTY) . I would generally speaking say it was someone who just has no boundaries when it comes to sex. Who its with, how many people, when, where etc etc. No respect for either parties. I dont think its purely about numbers. .. maybe it is. I feel I would be shooting myself in the foot if I said that, with my past being that, my past.



With being with different people, I kinda felt I had a new found respect for people and peoples bodies. The more bodies you see, the more respect for humans and insecurities I think you have. No doubt, theres those insecurities that everyone has. Things that they wouldnt want people to notice about them when you are literally in your most vunerable state (nakkkkkeeeyyy), I kinda think thats cool. Like knowing or noticing those things in someone, and how much you realise that people actually dont care. Maybe its diff for girls and guys. i swear most guys dont give a shit, because there gettttttinnnn soooommmme. Dogs. But PERSONALLY, I just think its cool. That no one else might no about that, except you. I gotta admit, im really not that self concious about being naked. And seeing that confidence in someone else I FIND completely hot. But also someone whos a little self concious about that, but then lets that go for you, is so hot too.

Maybe its that caring, nuturing girl in me. But I wanna cradle that insecurity and make that person feel amazing about themselves.

Then theres those traumatic experiences. Where its not about making that person feel the way they should , its more about "wham bam, thanks bitch". Im not going to lie. I am guilty of that also. where i just dont care to its greatest extent and its about me and no im not going to do that to you, cos i dont like you, i am simply using you. Geeeeessssssss that makes me seem awful. But its the truth. And I think it makes you appreciate "love making" (GROSS, thats such a weird name, like what? your creating it by calling it that? No.) but maybe more less having sex rather then fucking. Im sure in context you wouldnt be like "oh yeah me and my boyfriend were fucking last night right?" Wouldnt you be inclined to say "Oh yeah me and my boyfriend were having sex last night right?" Dunno, just seems more respectful and tame. Maybe thats just me. But id kinda be like um oooohhhhhh kkk.. If someone said effing. Like common, thats your boyfriend, respect hunny.



I always find it interesting to find out about other peoples perspective on this subject. Like how many people have they boned, the weirdest thing sexually that they have done or have had done, the abnormalties they have seen on someone etc etc. It so amazing. Some people have THE weirdest stories. My sluts certainly do.



Then, how important is sex? how often is enough? Is there such thing? is there too much? When are you "suppose" to have sex within a relationship/dating? 3rd date? too soon? too late? romance? lust? So mannnnnnyyyyy questions. Its like i was just given birth too and i dont know how the world works.

what makes that person the person who your like, "Actually, im not just going to bone you, I kinda wanna take it slow and enjoy you" VS. "dont know if i really like you, but i think i wanna rip your clothes off anyway?" ....



I dont have a problem with drunken sex. To a degree. Obviously its not ideal , ideal. But kinda think its a bit fun too. I think you let go of alot of things when you do . And that sense of "probs shouldnt be doing this, but its fun being drunk, free and in the moment". Next days where its not sooooo goood. Me personally? I hate morning sex. Mostly if you were drunk its the pits. D-scusting. I actually am like "nooooooooooooo iiiii ddoooonnt wannnnnna , its yucckkkkkk". Seriously, Have a shower, brush your teeth, then talk to me. until then, I REALLY dont wanna know yah. I guess im talking with randoms now, because if its someone you care about, you dont overly worry about those things.



Random talk. Once agian. Apologies Mum. You know me, honest!