Independant woman

" I see when men love woman, they give them but a little of their lives. But woman when they love, give everything"
- Oscar Wilde


Love is fascinating. Like girl vs guy love. I believe ( and ive said it before) that all men are the same (and woman for that matter) but there are some that ruin it for the whole team. Im talking about asshole guys, and stupid bitch girls . The ones who cheat, lie, lead people on, play games etc. You fuckheads. I hate you. And you cause so much damage. Jerks.


I dont believe that fairytale love exisits. Yes, Ive been burned. But also I just think that its a completely unrealistic view on love. Yes it is amazing at the best of times, its also the hardest thing ever. Im not just talking about boy vs girl love right now either. Sibling to sibling. Its hard to see your sibling do something stupid, or you have an arguement or you feel dissapointed by something they do. Likewise for a friend. Its just a known fact that the harder you care, the harder you hurt.

My cousin is currently in New York. Shes been there 6 weeks and has just had the most amazing oppertunities. Working for a world famous photographer, been to exclusive parties, met some awesome people, blah blah living the dream etc. She met someone. And she REALLY likes him. I have never heard her talk about someone like this. And the girl sure has had her fair share of relationships. I actually think shes already in love with this guy. Its so strange. Because she is the type of girl everyone wants to be. Not just looks and oppertunities wise, but independence wise. All girls want that sense of "fuck you nigga, im doing me" attitude and this girl has/had it. She told me over the weekend "I just want my independent boss bitch attitude back" and its funny, because ive been feeling that way ever since I fell. Its something that takes a while to get and a look to lose.
Maybe heaps of girls dont care about it, and they are content with relying on someone else to make them happy, to do things for them, or to do things for. Of course there is an element of that in EVERY girl . EVERY girl. So if your a guy a searching for a girl who 'isnt like the rest' or a girl searching for a guy who 'isnt like the rest' then guess what? You will never complete that search. The things that are annoying about the opposite sex are most likely always going to be there. Im not saying settle for something your not happy with. You will meet that person that makes those annoying things SLIGHTLY bareable because the good outways and there not an asshole like the last person.

I also heard something else this week thats going on in one of my friends lives. And basically her boyfriend is being a REAL assbag to her and I just feel so sorry for her!! Completely helpless. I guess it even hurts/brings back feelings of loss when I hear about what shes going through. I was in the shower last night, and I just thought, Fuck it, where all damaged goods, its just a matter of finding the one that you want to be broken with .

Nothings to big to overcome. God wont give you more then you can handle. Dont let a shitty partner ruin the great things to come!

Leave you with this cutie:
"Promise me, you will always remember: Your braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think"
- Christopher Robin to Pooh.