A few that ruin it for the whole damn team...

I feel like this blog is quickly turning into a girls only space. Not true. BUT obviously it has a femme touch and has femme perspectives. For the girls- Ya'll can agree (or dissagree if you wish) and for the fullas (you can get an insight for a breif moment ).

So i realised that all guys are dirt. haha. BUT Then i thought "Oh no except.... Oh and except....Oh and then theres my brothers and my dad but apart from that there all dirt, OH no theres this guy" And i thought, there is a few that ruin it for the whole damn team. Im not going to lie, Ive had a bad run with boys. And i say boys because thats all they are (not talking in an age sense). My Mum said such an accurate quote to me this week she said "the boy never leaves them, they’re all Peter Pans inside" and i thought, hmmm kinda sounds cute but theres so much truth behind it. Sometimes thats a good thing, and sometimes mmmmmm not so much. Good thing? I find it cute when guys eat candy (dunno why, how strange) or when a guy gets super excited about something childlike.Bad thing? Find it hard to be a man, and say it how it is? Boy. Thinks solely with his thingy and not his brainy? Boy. Boyhood to Manhood clearly is a hard thing for males to accomplish.

I think that if a guy treats his mum and sisters well, then thats a example of how he treats girls. This is a debateable statement. I even debate it myself sometimes. But as a general rule to apply. I have also realised that i am stupid when it comes to chosing guys. Im so shit at it. Its a job i wanna pass onto someone else. But arranged marriage? Not really my scene. Although i think my dad would be stoked to take that apon himself. Lordy.

Its a strange thing though right? I have had "Nice" guys who are interested in me. But "Nice" ?? "Nice" just seems so boring and to be honest, id prolly have these guy for breakfast. Wheres the balance between bad boy and treats you well. Is there such mix? I dunno, I havnt found/seen it.
Im not talking about a thug whos in and out of jail, but when hes out of jail treats me like a princess, ew, no thanks. Im talking about a guy whos adventurous, street savvy, has goals and is working towards them, has a job, cares about someone other then himself, but a little bit badass.Maybe im asking too much.
But wanna know what??? I am going to be single ready to mingle. Have fun, take up oppertunities because I can-because im not tied down, not compromise myself or my heart for ANY one and just meet people!

So really,im not that upset about my recent ordeals. More excited. More clued up. More aware of what I want and more buff.

Its the weekend- Get ruckus.